(KL) GLENDALE, ARIZONA--AUGUST 8TH--2008--Julie Oligschlaeger reads a book in bed next to her son's cremated remains, tucked neatly in several t-shirts, at her home in Glendale Arizona Friday evening. Her son, Marine Corporal, Chad Oligschlaeger, served t [Getty Images]

(KL) GLENDALE, ARIZONA--AUGUST 8TH--2008--Julie Oligschlaeger reads a book in bed next to her son's cremated remains, tucked neatly in several t-shirts, at her home in Glendale Arizona Friday evening. Her son, Marine Corporal, Chad Oligschlaeger, served two tours in Iraq, tried to get help for PTSD problems after his first tour, but was brushed off and sent back. Chad returned to the Twentynine Palms base in Southern California from his second tour and tried again to get help, but was was put on a wait list for a PTSD program and was given an assortment of medications instead. On May 20th 2008 Chad was found dead lying on the floor in his barracks at Twentynine Palms. Julie's nightly ritual includes taking her son's remains, which sit on a stack of encyclopedias, which set next to family photos in the living room, into her bedroom and carefully places them next to her. She talks to him letting him know how her day was and any recent news and of course how much she misses him. THE DENVER POST/ ANDY CROSS (Photo By Andy Cross/The Denver Post via Getty Images)