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NEW YORK - DECEMBER 20: An exterior of the Marble Collegiate Church where a rememberence service for Marcia Gay Harden's sister in law, neice and nephew, who where tragically killed in a fire in Queens, took place December 20, 2003 in New York City. (Photo by Mark Mainz/Getty Images)

NEW YORK - DECEMBER 20:  An exterior of the Marble Collegiate Church where a rememberence service  for Marcia Gay Harden's sister in law, neice and nephew, who where tragically killed in a fire in Queens, took place December 20, 2003 in New York City.  (Photo by Mark Mainz/Getty Images)